Contact Form Questionaire
We understand that this is a new experience for most people, as other shops do use this type of method. In that way, it is what makes us unique, but it also makes it more nerve-wracking for many too. We understand that it is hard to put information into a form when you do not know what we are looking for or what to say. So, we here we are with offering a good guide on questions we love to know the answer to, in order to help us Match better. Feel free to copy and paste!
Disclaimer: We are not requiring everything, it's all optional and for your comfort use. We do ask though that you do include the ones marked with an asterisk.
Disclaimer: We are not requiring everything, it's all optional and for your comfort use. We do ask though that you do include the ones marked with an asterisk.
*Basics
Legal Name: We honestly only need this incase it shows up on Paypal and we can match it to your name.
Preferred/Chosen Name: This is the one we will address you by
Name to put on package:
Birthday: This is to make sure that you will not need a parental consent form or that you are over 21 for adult spirits
Are you currently residing outside of the United States: We do not ship outside of the US due to extreme costs of shipping. With this, you can qualify for distance attachments.
Discreet Packaging?
Sex***: We are only asking this for one reason, which is that some spirits are unable to work with certain sexes due to triggers that they have experienced. We want to make sure that this is not a complication or an issue on both ends, and that the spirit is accepting of your identity. Normally, we would not ask, but we want to be on the safe side for both parties.
Gender: Please place your preffered pronouns as well. While we use (you), we want to be on the safe side and make it comfortable
Sexual/Romantic Orientation:
Are you looking for a spirit that is a romantic/sexual partner, or will be? This can be over the course of years, not an immediate thing.
If you are looking for sexual/romantic partner, why?
Personality: What are you like in general? How to you act around friends? family? by yourself? teachers/mentors? authority figures?
Interests/Hobbies:
Struggles With/Suffers With: This can be anything from physical/mental diseases to spiritual issues. This is not exactly required, but we want to make sure that if you have for example: anxiety, that a hyperactive energy may be triggering for you instead of calming.
Are there any Triggers that we need to be aware of?: (ie: PTSD of aggressive people, loud talkers, anything that can be harmful to your health of exposed) This is extremely important to us, because we want to make sure that your companion will not trigger you or cause any unintentional harm. This can include physical triggers, or things of a spiritual nature. Whatever triggers you, please include for your health and safety.
Do you consider your astral/true self to be of another race/being? Some spirits are enemies of another, and will not work with each other. Identifying with a certain race/being/creature can affect a custom or Preattached Matching. It is alright if you do not know or identify as human on the astral.
Ethics/Morals:
Do you have any house rules for any current or future companions?
What do you believe in when it comes to engaging in conflict? For example, you believe that they must be the starter, you ignore it, you only defend yourself, you walk away, you will engage back because they slighted your pride or family, etc.
Where do you see yourself on the spectrum of ethics, such as Arts/Alignments of other shops? While we do not personally use the Arts/Alignments for spirits, we understand that many do use them and it's a good classification for people.
Scenario: You are out and about, walking in town. There is no one around when you stumble across a large amount of cash. What do you do with it? There is no judgement or wrong answer, if you turn it in or if you keep it for yourself to pay debts, whatever the reason. But this helps us see where you would align with certain types of spirits. Please don't tell us what you think we want to hear, we could care less of what you do with it, but want to see which type of moral/ethics you would align with in certain spirits. Such as being more justice or self motivated, etc.
Is there anything specific that you foresee as a moral/ethic issue that needs to be said?
What do you believe in when it comes to engaging in conflict? For example, you believe that they must be the starter, you ignore it, you only defend yourself, you walk away, you will engage back because they slighted your pride or family, etc.
Where do you see yourself on the spectrum of ethics, such as Arts/Alignments of other shops? While we do not personally use the Arts/Alignments for spirits, we understand that many do use them and it's a good classification for people.
Scenario: You are out and about, walking in town. There is no one around when you stumble across a large amount of cash. What do you do with it? There is no judgement or wrong answer, if you turn it in or if you keep it for yourself to pay debts, whatever the reason. But this helps us see where you would align with certain types of spirits. Please don't tell us what you think we want to hear, we could care less of what you do with it, but want to see which type of moral/ethics you would align with in certain spirits. Such as being more justice or self motivated, etc.
Is there anything specific that you foresee as a moral/ethic issue that needs to be said?
Spiritual/Religious
Spiritual Skills/Abilities:
If you are more experienced, what do you use for communicating with spirits? (ie: clairaudience/telepathy, tarot, pendulum, going to the astral, etc.)
Do you have any spiritual/ability issues that you want help with?
Spiritual Practices (ie: divination,ritual work, sigils, runes, witchcraft, etc):
What areas of the occult (ie witchcraft, magic, spirit work, etc.) if any, are you drawn to/want to improve?
Religious Beliefs/Practices:
Any Elemental Affiliation?
Do you currently work with any deities? It is alright if you do not or if you do not want to answer this question.
If you do work with deities, are you Oathbound or Devoted to one? Can you explain a bit? While you don't have to answer this, we highly recommend that you do, as we do not want to interfere or cause unnecessary tension. Some deities don't work with certain spirits and vice versa.
If you are more experienced, what do you use for communicating with spirits? (ie: clairaudience/telepathy, tarot, pendulum, going to the astral, etc.)
Do you have any spiritual/ability issues that you want help with?
Spiritual Practices (ie: divination,ritual work, sigils, runes, witchcraft, etc):
What areas of the occult (ie witchcraft, magic, spirit work, etc.) if any, are you drawn to/want to improve?
Religious Beliefs/Practices:
Any Elemental Affiliation?
Do you currently work with any deities? It is alright if you do not or if you do not want to answer this question.
If you do work with deities, are you Oathbound or Devoted to one? Can you explain a bit? While you don't have to answer this, we highly recommend that you do, as we do not want to interfere or cause unnecessary tension. Some deities don't work with certain spirits and vice versa.
Companionship Specifics
How long have you been a spirit worker/companion?
If you have other companions, what types of spirits are they (ie fae, dragons, hellhounds, etc.)? Only their species is needed, no additional information is required.
Are their some species of spirits that you refuse to work with?
Are their some energies that you refuse to work with?
Are there any factors that would make you reject a spirit that came through on a custom? (ie species, deity affiliation, gender, etc.)
Do you Travel the Astral?
If Preattached: What specifically draws you to this spirit and why do you think that you would be a good match for them?
If Preattached: How often do you check their profiles?
If Preattached: How do they make you feel?
If Preattached: If they were to find another home just as you submitted the form, what would you feel?
What are your goals on working with this spirit in developing yourself mentally? Physically? Emotionally? Psychically?
What are your plans on working with them to achieve the goals together?
How are you going to help them in return with their development of those areas?
Custom Matching: What personality are you looking for in a companion?
Custom Matching: What type of ethics/morals are you looking for in a companion?
Custom Matching: What type of energy are you looking to work with in a companion?
Custom Matching: What type of skills are you interested in learning from a companion?
If you have other companions, what types of spirits are they (ie fae, dragons, hellhounds, etc.)? Only their species is needed, no additional information is required.
Are their some species of spirits that you refuse to work with?
Are their some energies that you refuse to work with?
Are there any factors that would make you reject a spirit that came through on a custom? (ie species, deity affiliation, gender, etc.)
Do you Travel the Astral?
If Preattached: What specifically draws you to this spirit and why do you think that you would be a good match for them?
If Preattached: How often do you check their profiles?
If Preattached: How do they make you feel?
If Preattached: If they were to find another home just as you submitted the form, what would you feel?
What are your goals on working with this spirit in developing yourself mentally? Physically? Emotionally? Psychically?
What are your plans on working with them to achieve the goals together?
How are you going to help them in return with their development of those areas?
Custom Matching: What personality are you looking for in a companion?
Custom Matching: What type of ethics/morals are you looking for in a companion?
Custom Matching: What type of energy are you looking to work with in a companion?
Custom Matching: What type of skills are you interested in learning from a companion?